Bharat Mata Ki Jai!
Parenting is a tuff challenge in the present era. Here are some parenting tips for you! Study Bridge is not only for students but also for their parents.
1) Let kids
learn to wash their plates
A 12 year boy
last time shocked his aunt when she asked him to put the plate in the sink by
saying 'oh sorry Aunt I did not know this is my duty. My house, either maid or
ma takes it.'
2) Every
morning, make kids learn to fold their bedsheets and and arrange their pillows
and beds
A 15 year old
girl who was sent to a residential summer camp was asked by the warden of camp
to fold her bedsheets and arrange her pillow and bed. The girl was not knowing
how to do this and she was teased by her fellow camp-mates.
3) Let kids
learn to eat what is cooked at home instead of what they like to eat.
During the
course of MBBS, the boy who topped the entrance became ill, as he was not
having habbit of eating everything. Most of the times he used to avoid the food
given by hostel and ordered junk food which led to deficiency of many nutrients
and made him seriously ill.
4) Let kids
gather their friends & go for evening walks, introduce themselves to neighbours.
A 10 year old
girl lost her way to home as she didn’t know the landmarks around her home and
the girl is still missing.
5) Let kids make
lemonade along with their friends after their outdoor play.
All need
refreshment after playing. If the boys and girls are allwed to prepare their own
lemonade then they will have habbit to prepare their own refreshments or any
prescribed juice by doctor. If they are allowed to prepare laonade along with
their friends, they will develop a habbit to work in team.
6) Let kids
share toys.
If kids are not
sharing their stuff since beginning then they will not be able to create a good
relationship with each other. Sharing and caring go hand by hand. If they share
something valuable they will have habbit to use things others with care.
7) Instead of
going to big cinema halls, gather little friends, and watch a kid friendly film
or show on TV.
Arrange such
show watching with your kids once in a month or on special occssion. Ask your
kids to collect all the snacks and colddrinks which are to be taken during watching
the film. Arrange the decorum of TV room before and after the show with your
kids. Thus they will have habbit to create special moments in their life.
8) Let kids stay
with grand parents, uncles and aunts without parents for atleast a week.
This builds
their relation with other family members and let them to grow their
communication skills with all ages. Let children explore the people in this way
and the let them observe the routine of others and implement good things which
they marked.
9) Let kids arrange
their own stuff and keep their play area and room tidy.
A 7 year old boy
was not having habit to arrange his own school bad and keep all the things
tidy, he used to loose his notebooks often and it made him rewrite all the
classwork and homework again and again and face the fury of teachers frequently
for rechecking of the notebooks.
10) Kids can
make kitchen utensils out of real clay.
This enbles
their creativity and they start to explore the things around them.
11) If they get
sick, let them heal without any medicine
Many times the
sickness is due to some silly reasons. E.g. not drinking water for long time
lead to headache and body temperature. If instead of giving medicins allow your
child to do stretching exercise, massaging their own body parts, and drink
plentifull of water. Thus they will have habit to do these things in routine.
12) Let them
wake up without alarm, let them go bed after a tiring play.
Unless they are
not tired they will not fall asleep. A good sleep leads to a fresh wake-up. If
they are listioning to alarms of clock and then waking up then they will not
cultivate habbit of lisoning their own body clock.
13) Parents who
ever have the options please leave the kids at grand parents place.
Grandparents
will take better care than us. This again builds the family foundation strong.
Thus kids will come to know the family values.
14) There is
definitely life beyond maths, language , science, art, craft, robotics,
handwriting, Olympiads etc
Let them read
books on variety of subjects as per their age groups.
Thanks for watching!
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